So exactly a week ago, last Friday, I scheduled my fistula operation. After my first failed fistula operation early this year, I was planning to go overboard with protecting my arm to ensure that this fistula would mature. I was planning on not moving around for two weeks to guarantee that nothing would go wrong.…Read more on the day
Okay, this is going to be a long one. And I'm going to try to stay calm. This is going to be about HIV. A few days ago, I got a message from someone I had met a long while back through Grindr when I still had Grindr. We never met up but we used…Read more Better People
So I saw this today on my Twitter feed after I was tagged on this post (I didn't know you could tag on Tweets now) and I'm guessing they wanted me to answer the question. Well, the truth is, I have so many answers for this question. It's not a simple one or two sentence…Read more #HelloPoz As a PLHIV, what do you want people to know about you?
So I saw this old Tweet of mine from last year on TimeHop. And it is a strange coincidence that a year later, these are words I needed to hear. It's like a gift from the past, reaching out to my present self to remind me that I've been through this path before and…Read more the thing about lines
On September 11, Sonata opened in SM Cinemas nationwide. On September 11, my head exploded. I was a complete and total mess. I was attached, almost on a molecular level, to my cellphone, checking the updates every five minutes and trying to find any news or report on social media regarding how people were taking…Read more lost my head
I've been feeling a little stretched too far and too wide lately. I remember a tweet that I had put out a few months ago. It said: At the time, I was trying to talk about something else that was also pulling me in so many directions. Had I known that this would be a…Read more stretched thin